美国作家艾尔玛·邦贝克的《父亲的爱》,以朴实、平淡的笔调描述了不懂得怎样口头表达爱的父亲寓爱于平凡的日常生活中。父爱虽然不是直截了当的,但并非是感受不到的。作者善于把母亲细微、体贴的爱与父亲的大咧,甚至近乎生硬、冷酷的爱有机地结合起来,读来真切感人,合乎情理。“他要我把它送回去,告诉卖糖的说是我偷的,说我愿意替他拆箱卸货作为赔偿。”字里行间看不出父亲的慈祥。其实,在他生硬的态度中,父爱表现于一种责任 The American writer Elma Bambeck’s “Father’s Love” describes in a plain and plain tone a father who does not know how to express love verbally in his daily life. Although fatherly love is not straightforward, it is not felt. The author is good at combining the mother’s subtle and considerate love with his father’s amnesty, and even near-hard and cold love organically, and reads really touching and reasonable. “He asked me to send it back, telling me that it was I who stole the sugar and said that I was willing to pay him for the unpacking and unloading as compensation.” The father’s kindness could not be seen between the lines. In fact, in his blunt attitude, fatherly love manifested in a kind of responsibility.