即使夫妻感情很好的家庭,也往往存在着玩笑式的对孩子感情上的争夺,尤其是母亲们,普遍比他们的丈夫更喜欢孩子的依恋和缠绕,更喜欢孩子用初谙世事的语言说出对母亲的感情偏向。每当孩子搂抱着母亲的脖子,带着人之初最鲜活的奶音与母亲亲热时,母亲就会放下手中的一切来应和他。常听到年轻妈妈满脸骄傲地抱怨道:“我儿子自小粘我,跟他爸爸倒挺敬而远之的。星期天也不跟爸爸回爷爷家,只跟外婆和姨妈们亲。”孩子的恋母情结受到母亲的有意识引导后,加剧了“小家庭亲情关系向母性倾 Even couples with well-meaning families tend to have joking emotional sentiments toward their children, especially mothers, who generally prefer children’s attachment and entanglement to their husbands, preferring to speak in a naive language Out of the feelings of the mother bias. Whenever a child cuddles his mother’s neck, with the most vivid milk tone at the beginning of a man’s affectionate mother, the mother will put down everything in his hands to deal with him. Often hear the young mother face proudly complained: “My son childhood stick me, and his father down very respectful. Sunday also does not go back to my grandfather’s house with my father, only with grandmother and aunt.” The child’s Oedipal Affected by the mother’s conscious guidance, exacerbated the "family relations of small families to motherhood