对男人,顾名思义,所谓的花言巧语包含了两个内容,一是花言,二是巧语。前者偏于幼稚,后者更加老练;前者多为哄骗女孩,后者多为镇住女人。但无论哪一种,都是男人为达到目的采取的软硬兼施的策略。由于男人是目标动物,尽管很多时候男人施展策略不是出于个人心计而是出于男人的禀性,但从结果上看,由于女人天然情感因素导致的爱情归属,女人不但不容易 For men, as the name suggests, the so-called rhetoric contains two elements, one rhetoric, and the other is idiom. The former is naive, the latter more sophisticated; the former mostly kidding girls, the latter mostly for women. But no matter what, are both men and women to achieve the purpose of both hardware and software strategy. Because men are the target animals, although in many cases men develop strategies not out of personal account but out of the man’s nature, but from the result point of view, due to the natural affection of women attributable to love, women not only not easy