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家长说,孩子大了,不知道他们心里面想什么,难管;孩子说,家长忙来忙去,不关心我们,懒得和他们说。在家里,各人做各人的事,各自为政缺少联系。家庭中,夫妻之间要沟通,亲子之间要沟通。不沟通,家庭就像一盘散沙;不沟通,情感就像一片荒漠;不沟通,就造成心理上的“冷暴力”。曾经有位学生家长觉察到儿子好像谈恋爱了,为寻求证据,于是寻找机会查看儿子的手机,几次三番借故走进儿子房间,一会要帮他理房间,一会要帮他洗衣服,一会在房间里找
Parents said the children are big, do not know what they think in the heart, hard to manage; the child said that parents busy, do not care about us, too lazy to say to them. In the family, each person does something for oneself and there is a lack of connection between them. Family, the couple should communicate between parents and children to communicate. Without communication, the family is like a mess of sand; without communication, emotion is like a desert; if it is not communicated, it causes psychological “cold violence”. There was a student parents aware of the son seems to fall in love, in search of evidence, so looking for a chance to see his son’s cell phone, several times by accident into the son room, one would have to help him manage the room for a while to help him wash clothes for a while Look in the room