家里有0~6岁的孩子,家长可要注意了,这些父母常对孩子说的话,很可能造成孩子的误解。“做得好”如果每次孩子做好了某件事,父母都用“好孩子”“做得好”来表扬,孩子会将父母的称赞和肯定当成以后再做这件事的外在动因,而不是自愿去做这件事。所以,下次孩子再做好某件事时,可具体告诉孩子好在 There are 0 to 6-year-old children at home, parents should pay attention to these parents often say to their children, it is likely to cause children’s misunderstanding. “Well done ” If every time a child does something, both parents praise it with “Good Child ” “Well done ”, and the child will recognize the parent’s praise and affirmation as the future Instead of voluntarily doing this, it is the external motivation for something. So, the next time the child is doing something, he can tell the child specifically