随着社会的进步与文明程度的提高,家庭教育中那种粗暴“体罚”孩子的现象虽然大大减少,但还是经常会听到一些家长对“不争气”子女的训斥与嘲讽:“没出息”、“笨蛋”等,这就是所谓的“心罚”。不管父母的出发点是多么的“是为孩子好”,理由是多么的实在,但其教育后果,必然会适 With the progress of society and the improvement of the level of civilization, the phenomenon of “corporal punishment” of children in family education has been greatly reduced. However, some parents often hear reprimands and ridicule about “unscrupulous” children: , “Idiot”, etc., this is the so-called “heart punishment.” Regardless of the parents’ starting point is “good for children,” the reason is so real, but its educational consequences, will inevitably be appropriate