美国有一本家庭教育的小册子,叫做《一分钟母亲》。这位拥有3个孩子的母亲.把她的教育归结在3个“一”上,即:一分钟目标,一分钟表扬,一分钟责备。她把真挚的情感渗透到表扬之中,当孩子做了好事、成绩优异达到既定目标时.她给予孩子的是拥抱和亲吻,还有那温柔慈爱的目光及热烈的首肯;当孩子表现不佳时,她首先用沉默来表示自己的态度,使孩子在心理上有了一定的压力,继而用低沉的话语来责备孩子。当孩子对母亲的教育心服口服彻底承认错 The United States has a family education booklet called “One Minute Mother.” The mother of three children attributed her education to three “one” goals: one minute, one minute, one minute reproach. She infiltrated her sincere affection into praise, and when the child did a good deed and achieved excellent accomplishments, she gave hugs and kisses to her children as well as tender and loving eyes and enthusiastic approval. When the children did not perform well When she first used silence to express their attitude, so that children have a certain psychological pressure, and then use low words to blame the child. When the child orally convinced of the mother’s education completely wrong