叔本华说:“一个悲观的人,把所有的快乐都看成不快乐,好比美酒到充满胆汁的口中也会变苦一样。生命的幸福与困厄,不在于降临的事情本身是苦是乐,而要看我们如何面对这些事”。要善于遗忘痛苦,学会放弃焦虑,懂得享受生活,用乐观的心态去面对人生中的风风雨雨。苏轼在《定风波·莫听穿林打叶声》这首词中借道中遇雨之小事,即景生情,抒写了被贬黄州,倍受打击后旷达处世,淡泊人生的生活态度。坎坷和厄运折磨了词人也成就了词人,灾难造就了这位文坛巨人,其品格和积极的生活态度令无数后人仰慕。 Schopenhauer said: “A pessimistic person, all of the happy as unhappy, as the wine to the mouth full of bile will become bitter, the happiness and distress of life, is not that the advent of things itself is bitter Music, depends on how we deal with these things. ” To be good at forgetting the pain, learn to give up anxiety, know how to enjoy life, with an optimistic attitude to face the ups and downs in life. Su Shi, in his speech “Settle the Storm, Listen to the Woods,” took a small event in the rain, King’s Love, to describe his life attitude after being demoted to Huangzhou. Frustration and doom tortured the poet also contributed to the poet, the disaster created the literary giant, his character and positive attitude to life countless descendants admire.