我曾经见过一些人,为了取悦孩子的父母而假装喜欢孩子,结果遭到孩子的反感。这是为什么呢?因为这些人自以为聪明而低估了孩子的理解力。孩子们能够立即觉察虚情假意,在这方面,他们有时甚至比大人还要敏感。所以我建议:把孩子当大人对待,充分尊重他们。只有这样,你才可能有机会与孩子们交朋友。 I have seen some people, pretending to like children to please the children’s parents, the result was the child’s disgust. Why? Because these people are smart and underestimated the child’s understanding. Children are immediately aware of the hypocrisy, and in this regard they are sometimes even more sensitive than adults. So I suggest: treat children as adults and fully respect them. Only in this way may you have the opportunity to make friends with the children.