过去一般人总以为高智商等于高成就，其实不然。有研究表明：人生的成就，至多只有20％归于智商，而80％则受情商的影响。所谓情商，就是指个人对自己的情感、情绪的控制管理能力，以及在人际关系中的交往、调节能力等。请商不同于智商，它不受先天基因局限，而是随着人生经验 In the past, most people always thought that high IQ was equal to high achievement, but it was not. Studies have shown that at least 20% of the achievements in life are attributable to IQ, while 80% are affected by emotional intelligence. The so-called emotional quotient, refers to the individual’s own emotions, emotions, control and management skills, as well as in the interpersonal relationships, regulatory capacity. Consultation is different from IQ, it is not limited by innate genes, but with the experience of life