那些因丈夫的“前恋人(Ex-lover)”出现而耿耿于怀的人,多半是敏感、狭隘、易走极端的人。相反,那些能够在紧要关头忘却前嫌,帮助曾伤害过他的“前恋人”的人,才有真正宽以待人的肚量。这种气度本身也是婚姻和睦的基础。 Those who are embarrassed by the appearance of their husband’s “Ex-lover” are mostly sensitive, narrow-minded, and extremist. On the contrary, those who can forge ahead at the crucial moment and help the “ex-lover” who had hurt him have a real leniency. This kind of tolerance is also the basis of marital harmony.