我想,对于孩子来说,首先要有一颗善良和宽容的心。我遇到过很多爸爸妈妈这样教育孩子:别人打你,你也打他,打不过就咬。咱们宁可赔钱,也不能吃亏。还有很多爸爸妈妈因为孩子们学校一点小小的纷争,就来学校为学生壮胆,所谓的“讨回公道”。也许父母的本意没有错,即告诫孩子学会保护自己。可是这样做,将在孩子心中埋下什么样的种子?或许在父母看来,“从小不吃亏”才能更好地保护自己,“人善被人欺”的思想让父母们忽视了对孩子进行善良教育。可是,这样教育出来的孩子,怎么与他人和谐相处交流,如此不愿吃亏,又怎能面对工作中的种种压力?其实,没有善良心的孩子更无法很好地保护自己。在我的班 I think for the children, we must first have a kindhearted and tolerant heart. I met many parents so educate children: others hit you, you hit him, beat it. We would rather lose money, we can not afford to lose. There are many parents because children’s schools a little bit of dispute, came to school for students courage, the so-called “justice ”. Perhaps parents are not wrong, that is, warned children learn to protect themselves. However, in doing so, what kind of seeds will be planted in the child’s mind? Perhaps in the parents’ view, “no loss ” to better protect themselves, Good education for children. However, such educated children, how to get along with others in harmony and exchange, so unwilling to afford, how can we face the pressure of work? In fact, children without good conscience more can not protect themselves well. In my class