湖北省当阳市官当中学周开林:与学生谈话是教师的一项经常性的工作。然而,在现实生活中,我们发现一些教师动辄对学生进行训斥、说教,效果却适得其反。根本原因在于他们违背了学生认知心理特点,造成了学生的逆反、对抗心理。在长期从事思想政治工作实践中,我认识到,与学生谈话要做到平等、真诚、求实、守信,学生才能亲其师,信其道。 Zhou Zhonglin, an official from Central Dist., Danyang City, Hubei Province: Talking with students is a regular job for teachers. However, in real life, we have found that some teachers are often reprimanded or preached by students, but the results are counterproductive. The fundamental reason is that they violated the cognitive psychological characteristics of students and caused students’ rebellious and antagonistic mentalities. In the long-term practice of ideological and political work, I realized that students must be equal, honest, truth-seeking, and trustworthy when talking with students.