我有两个儿子,各自成家后又给我们添了两个孙子。长孙上六年级,幼孙上三年级。我始终认为,只要踏踏实实、有条不紊地学习,都能考上大学,没有必要让孩子追“奥数”或课外“加餐”。可他们的父母不这样看,“不能让孩子输在起跑线上”成了他们抓孩子学习的口头禅。老师布置的作业再多,起五更爬半夜也得完成;社会上办的启蒙班加优班费用再昂贵,他们也舍得花钱。在校学习不能马虎,寒假暑 I have two sons and have given us two grandchildren after they each got married. Changsheng on the sixth grade, young grandson on the third grade. I always think that as long as down-to-earth, methodical study, can be admitted to college, there is no need to allow children to chase “Mathematical Olympiad” or extracurricular “snacks.” But their parents do not think so, “can not let children lose at the starting line ” became their mantra for children to learn. There are more assignments for teachers, and climbing from the fifth to the middle of the night has to be completed. The cost of enlisting classes and classes in the community is expensive, and they are also willing to spend money. In school can not careless, winter vacation