在生活中,年轻的男性抱怨女性“过于冷淡,缺乏激情”;年轻的女性则反过来抱怨男人“只顾自己,不懂温柔”。但在35岁以上的夫妻中,情况开始颠倒过来,女性抱怨男性“缺乏性欲,过于冷淡”,这就是人到中年常见的性互变现象,具体表现在以下几个方面。 性欲强度 在传统社会里,女性做姑娘时往往是“性盲”,因此,婚后必须经过相当长的一段时间才能逐渐适应和享受性生活,往往要到30岁以上才能有足够的时间、精力和欲望投入性生活。加上性生活多少也有了一些经验, In life, young men complain that women are “too cold and lack of passion”; young women, in turn, complain that men “only care about themselves and do not understand gentleness.” However, among couples over the age of 35, the situation began to turn upside down. Women complain that men are “lack of sexual desire and are too cold.” This is the common phenomenon of sexual intercourse among middle-aged people, which is manifested in the following aspects. Sexual Desire In traditional societies, women are often “sexually blind” when they are girls, and it takes a long time for marriage to gradually adapt and enjoy sexual life, often reaching the age of 30 to have sufficient time and energy And desire into sex life. Plus the number of sexual life also has some experience,