“好孩子”通常具有以下心理特征:性格内向,责任感很强;自我道德要求很高;感情敏感、细腻;进取心与自尊心均很强,是完美主义者,对自己的境遇总不太满意,甚至缺乏信心。“好孩子”有其成功和优势之处,但有一部分存在着或大或小的心理问题。调查资料表明,“好孩子”的家庭教育一般是比较严格与传统的,孩子总是力求实现父母的愿望,这种行为方式 “Good boy ” usually has the following psychological characteristics: introverted, strong sense of responsibility; self-moral requirements are high; sensitive and delicate; aggressive and self-esteem are strong, is perfectionist, their own situation is not always Satisfied or even lack of confidence. “Good boy ” has its success and advantage, but there are some large and small psychological problems. Survey data show that “good boy ” family education is generally more stringent and traditional, children always strive to achieve the aspirations of parents, this behavior