“近日,到一友人家去做客,见了友人的儿子小伟,感到很吃惊:小伟念二三年级时,是个聪明伶俐、活泼可爱的孩子,成绩在班级一直是数一数二的。转眼五六年不见,小伟变了,以前那明亮的大眼睛现在看起来呆滞无神。我问友人,小伟这是怎么了,怎么变成这样木讷寡言?原来,我调离那所学校后友人担心儿子成绩下降,常采用“激将法”教育儿子。当儿子考了第二名时,他心里虽然高兴,可嘴上 Recently, when I visited a friend’s house and met my friend’s friend, Xiaowei, I was very surprised: Xiao Wei was a clever, lovely and lovely child when he was a sophomore in grade two or three, and he has been one of the best in class. The year is gone, Xiaowei changed, before that bright big eyes now look dull .I asked my friends, Xiaowei this is how, how become such a reticent? Originally, I tune away from the school friends after the worry His son’s grades declined, often using “shock the law” to educate his son when his son took the second exam, although his heart happy, but his mouth