从小我家几乎不请客,我也不敢轻易把小伙伴领到家里玩。我成年后,广交益友,热情好客,其实是对父辈的遥远反抗。直到中年并且有了儿子之后,我才开始检视我从父亲那里所受到的影响。父亲是一个勤奋而坚忍的人,他从一个民办教师半路考学,从教入政,成为乡村的传奇。 Almost no treats from my childhood, I did not dare to take my buddies to play at home. When I was an adult, I made friends and extended hospitality. In fact, I was far away from my parents. It was not until I was middle-aged and had my son that I began to examine the impact I had upon my father. Father is a hardworking and persevering person, he half-way from a private teacher exams, from teaching politics, as the legend of the country.