人生是一个漫长的过程,但是如人们所说“重要的往往就是那么几步”。孩子的成长过程也是如此。在这关键的几步中,父母的作用非常重要。就像王国芳老师在《尊重与建立权威是成长关键期教育的原则》一文中建议的,父母要成为一个正面的教育者。偷自行车是北京大兴摔婴案主犯韩磊人生的第一个十字路口,他的偷窃行为被居委会工作人员发现,他被处以行政拘留13天。之后,被勒令前往工读学校就读。如果他的父母履行了一个教育者的职责,当家里的自行车丢了的时候,呈现给孩子正常的情绪反应,当孩子人偷了别人的自行车的时候,让孩子立刻返还,并进行严格教育,也许就可以把问题扼杀在萌芽状态。父母应当是孩子的守护者。当孩子在工读学校里对着母亲哭着说想回家的时候,父母应 Life is a long process, but as people say, “what is important is often a few steps.” The same is true of children’s growth. In this crucial few steps, the role of parents is very important. Just as Wang Guofang suggested in his article “Principles of Respect and Establishment of Authority as the Key to Growth in Education”, parents should become a positive educator. Stealing a bike was the first crossroads of Han Lei’s life as the main culprit in Beijing Daxing Fall Baby Case. His stealing was discovered by neighborhood staff and he was held in administrative detention for 13 days. After that, he was ordered to attend a work-study school. If his parents fulfilled an educator’s duty when the bicycle in his home was lost, the normal emotional reaction to the child was presented. When the child stole another’s bicycle, he was instructed to return the child promptly and to undergo a rigorous education. Perhaps the problem can be strangled in the bud. Parents should be children’s guardians. When the child is crying at his mother-in-law school and wants to go home, parents should