世间各色人等,万万千千,并非同一思维,处世之道也不相同,“认真”、“过细”,大有人在。很难说谁是谁非,只能“求同存异”。求同存异是世间和谐之道,前提是遵守众人公认的社会准则,超越了或破坏了公众准则,人家就不会同你“求同存异”,因为你“异”得离谱,破坏了“求同”的基础 There are hundreds of thousands of people of all kinds in the world. They are not the same mindset, nor are they the same in their ways of life. They are “serious” and “too thin”. Difficult to say who is right or wrong, only “seeking common ground while reserving differences.” The principle of seeking common ground while shelving differences is the road to world harmony based on the premise of observing the generally accepted social norms that transcend or undermine public norms and that people will not seek common ground while reserving differences with you because you are outdone and undermine the basis of seeking common grounds