如果把孩子的身体比作第一生命的话,那么,孩子的心理就是第二生命。对第一生命的养育决定着孩子的身体是否健康,对第二生命的养育决定着孩子的心理是否正常、快乐。所以,只有对“两个生命”同时给予较好的养育,才能培养出健康又快乐的孩子。对孩子身体的养育一般较好掌握,而对孩子心理的养育,因为较复杂、抽象且难以把握,往往被忽视。直到孩子的心理问题通过行为表现出来后,家长才意 If the child’s body than the first life, then, the child’s psychology is the second life. The first life of the upbringing determines the child’s body is healthy, the second life of the parenting determines the child’s psychology is normal and happy. Therefore, we can only develop healthy and happy children if we give better parenting to “two lives ”. The child’s body is generally better grasp of parenting, and parenting of children, because more complex, abstract and difficult to grasp, are often overlooked. Until the child’s psychological problems through the behavior of the performance, parents just understand