闺女去外地上大学后,我没了贴身小棉袄,一时不知道怎么消磨时间。以前,老公很少涉足我们娘俩儿的活动,就爱窝在书房里看书、玩电脑。我不怪他,毕竟以前我的关注焦点都在女儿身上。现在就剩我们俩,如何培养共同的兴趣呢?我的提议他都不感兴趣,我该怎么做?—读者翠兰解答一:谢际春北京布谷鸟心理咨询中心这个问题是典型的中国式以孩子为中心导向的家庭必然要经历的一个沟坎。我们并不提倡这样的婚姻模式,相 Daughter go to the field after college, I did not close the jacket, sometimes do not know how to kill time. In the past, my husband seldom set foot in our activities, and loved to read and study in the study. I do not blame him, after all, my focus of attention before her daughter. Now that we are both left, how to cultivate a common interest? My proposal he was not interested, what should I do? - Readers Cui Lan answer: Xie Jixun Beijing Cuckoo Psychological Counseling Center This issue is a typical Chinese-style children to The center-oriented family is bound to experience a ditch. We do not advocate such a marriage model, phase