“口无遮拦”被我们视为人之大过,我们将话留三分,以求圆熟进退,视为沟通之最高境界。因而,我们难得畅所欲言,不会倾吐心事。太多的阻塞让我们失去了真诚。我们所以累;所以闷;所以不爽。是我们自己锁上了心之门,这又怨得了谁? “Overturning” is considered by us as a human being, we will stay in the third, in order to mature advance and retreat, as the highest level of communication. Thus, we rarely speak freely, will not pour out your mind. Too much obstruction made us lose our sincerity. So we tired; So bored; So unhappy. It is our own door to the heart, which is resentment?