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新年伊始“春风又绿江南岸”的时候,不少年轻人正在或打算踏上红地毯。看到耀眼的白色婚纱和新人们忙碌的身影,我想当然以为他们一定正在被巨大的幸福包围。不料,在私下里和一些新娘谈及婚姻,却感觉出她们有点儿惶惑,不知道自己该不该选择结婚,也不知道对方究竟是不是最佳人选。不是她们过于匆忙或不慎重,也不是结婚的对象有什么毛病,倒可能是她们太在意自己寻寻觅觅的结果。有勇气做“逃跑新娘”的极为罕见,但对未来生活中的不确定因素充满焦虑与恐惧的却大有人在。
At the beginning of the new year “Spring and Green River South Bank ”, many young people are planning to embark on the red carpet. See the dazzling white wedding dress and new people busy figure, I take for granted that they must be surrounded by great happiness. Unexpectedly, in private and some brides talk about marriage, but feel that they are a little bewildered, do not know whether they should choose to get married, do not know each other is not the best candidate. It is not that they are too hurried or careless, nor are they the objects of marriage, which may be the result of their being too concerned with their own search. It’s rare to have the courage to do “escaping the bride,” but there’s plenty of anxiety and fear about the uncertainties in the future.