阿伟(化名)在电话那头有点迟疑地问我:“能否给我介绍一个女的心理医生?”他喜欢那种声音甜度高的女孩。我愉快地告诉他一个新热线电话,“有方心理”那边有两位刚毕业的女硕士生。可隔天,阿伟又打来电活,说自己内心“那么脏的秘密”最好还是由位先生“分享”,我仍然是愉快地答应了。他正在恋爱,并认定自己是“恋爱中彷徨的狼”。是不是这个年代“狼”成为众多男人向往的褒义词?要不他好好的为何要自封为“狼”呢? Wei (a pseudonym) on the phone a bit hesitate to ask me: “Can you introduce me to a female psychiatrist?” He likes the sweet voice of the girl. I am pleased to tell him a new hotline, there are two freshly graduated female master’s students there. But the next day, Ah Wei called again and said that his own “so dirty secret” was best shared by Mr Bit. I still happily agreed. He is in love and finds himself “a wolf in love.” Is this era of “wolf” many men yearning to become commendatory? Why do not he good self-styled as “wolf”?