有人说,要读真正意义的爱情故事,必须扎进古典小说,只有在古典小说里我们才能发现爱情的本相:真诚的依恋、忠贞和坚守,而现代爱情故事大都是异化了的,它们不是婚外恋就是“动物恋”(两个人认识三分钟就上床的那种)。这种说法是不是科学,我们可以研究,但一个显见的事实是:现代小说比古典小说似乎更乐意展示非道德的爱和肉体的爱。古代小说自然也有写婚外恋和性的,比如《水浒传》《红楼梦》,但婚外恋的主角却是作为批判对象的,其中的性也大多只是作品刻画人物的一种手段。某些现代小说 Some people say that to read a true love story, it is necessary to get into the classical novels. Only in the classical novels can we discover the true nature of love: sincere attachment, loyalty and perseverance. Modern love stories are mostly alienated, and they are not Extramarital love is “animal love” (the two people know the kind of three minutes to go to bed). This statement is not science, we can study, but the obvious fact is: Modern novels seem to be more willing to show unethical love and physical love than classical novels. Ancient novels, of course, write extramarital affair and sex, such as “Outlaws of the Marsh”, “Dream of Red Mansions”, but the protagonist of extra-marital affairs is as a critic of the object, most of which sex is only a characterization of works as a means. Some modern novels