美国的一些儿童教育专家,总结出家长在教育子女时可能出现的“七大忌讳”——居高临下——如“你这么做就得挨揍”、“我在你这个年龄时早就……”、“你不听也得听”等等。如果家长老是“高高在上”,孩子会出现“口服心不服”的反应,最后事倍功半。冷嘲热讽——如“你以为自己 Some American children’s education experts summed up the “seven taboos” that parents may face when they are educating their children - standing at a height - such as “you have to beat yourself” and “I was at your age ...” , “You do not have to listen,” and so on. If parents are always “high above,” children will appear “oral displeasure,” the reaction, and ultimately less effective. Cynicism - such as "You think yourself