在告别常常来得猝不及防的年代,女人更不由自主向身边人寻求安全感。可是非要到了盛年你才懂得,这世上从来没有十拿九稳的安全感。钱是安全感,承诺是安全感,优秀的儿女是安全感,做了二十多年的工作是安全感……但统统又不是。安全感太多会胖,安全感太少会睡不着。怎么办?多年前曾经有人开过一张清单,列举那些让女人有安全感的项目:古老瑜伽;带柔韧底托的 In an era when farewell are often caught off guard, women are more likely to seek the security of others around themselves. However, you have to understand that you have never had enough sense of security in this world. Money is a sense of security, commitment is a sense of security, good children are a sense of security, done more than two decades of work is a sense of security ... ... But all is not. Too much security will be fat, too little sense of security will not sleep. What to do? Many years ago, someone had a list of items that made women feel safe: ancient yoga;