周六晚,我的心理咨询专线铃声响过,传来一个女孩的声音:“是马老师吗？有个问题您说我该怎么办？”“别急,先具体说说你的问题好吗？”我有意平缓她的情绪。“我们宿舍有一个同学特别难缠。她不讲道理,在宿舍里总是胡来,早上该起床时不起,晚上该睡时不睡,还在同学之间搬弄是非,搅得宿舍不得安宁……”“她和你个人的关系如何?就是说她是不是跟你一个人较劲?”我问。 On Saturday night, my psychological counseling line rang and a girl’s voice came: “Is Ma teacher? There is a problem. What do you say I should do? ”“ Don’t worry, let’s talk about yours first. Is the problem okay?”I intend to calm her emotions. “We have a classmate in our dormitory who is particularly hard to come by. She is not reasonable. She is always in the dormitory. She can’t get up in the morning, don’t sleep when she sleeps in the morning, and I can’t tell the truth between classmates. ...””How does she relate to you personally? That is to say, is she competing with you?" I ask.