许多家长采取陪孩子攻书的办法。他们或者睁着一双疲劳的眼睛注视着孩子一笔一画规规矩矩地做作业,或者拿一样家务活在孩子旁边做,时不时地插一句“知识重要,我们就吃过亏”之类的话,有的妈妈心疼孩子学习辛苦,还给孩子端热茶,煮夜宵。但结果收效甚微,有的孩子甚至因此更加厌倦学习了。最好别陪孩子攻书。首先,家长陪孩子学习,给孩子的感觉是父母不相信他们会自觉学习。孩子的这种感觉往往是潜意识的,在这类“需要”陪着学习的孩子中几乎没有孩子明白这一点。即便是他们提出来了,家长也准会认为这是孩子要偷懒的警报,反而看管更严了。渐渐地,孩子的厌倦情绪愈演愈烈。 Many parents adopt a method of accomplishing child abuse. They either watch their children’s eyes open with fatigued eyes and do their homework on a one-for-one basis, or take the same chores to do next to their children. From time to time, they insert the words “knowledge is important and we eat it.” If so, some mothers distressed children learn hard, give the child side hot tea, cook supper. However, the results with little success, and some children are even more tired of learning. Best not to accompany the children book. First, parents learn with their children and give their children the feeling that their parents do not believe they will learn consciously. This feeling of the child is often subconscious, and there are very few children in this category of “need” learning children to understand this. Even if they come up, parents should expect this to be lazy alarm, but more stringent caretaker. Gradually, the child’s tired mood intensified.