十、莫给孩子“吃偏饭”希望老师或有关方面多给自己的孩子一些关照,即多吃一点“偏饭”,这是许多家长的潜在心理,也是完全可以理解的。作为父母特别是独生子女的父母,对孩子总有太多太多的担心,怕他竞争不过别人受委屈,怕他弱小受到别人欺负,怕他生活能力低麻烦多等等。于是,有些家长千方百计讨好老师,有的甚至竭尽全力为学校做贡献,只求让自己的孩子“吃偏饭”。家长与教师的紧密配合是改进教育的必要条件。但是,给孩子“吃偏饭”却有百害而无一利。在 Ten, Mo to children “eat partial meal” I hope the teacher or interested parties to give their children some care, that eat more “partial meal”, which is the potential of many parents, but also fully understandable. As parents, especially the one-child parents, there are always too many worries to their children, afraid of his competition but others are wronged, afraid of being weak and being bullied by others, fearing that he will have more troubles in living and so on. Thus, some parents do everything possible to please teachers, and some even make every effort to contribute to the school, only to allow their children to “eat rice.” The close cooperation of parents and teachers is a necessary condition for improving education. However, there is no harm in giving children “partial lunches.” in