肖梅:当今的孩子,都是独生子女,父母在他们身上寄予了厚望,在家时,处处以他们为中心,孩子的心中,便有了一种“我很能干”、“我可以拥有一切”的潜意识。但孩子毕竟是“社会人”,他要走出家庭,走进社会,走进群体,于是,他发现自己并不被人看重,发现并不是每件事都干得很出色,所以,面对失败,他彷徨、他焦虑,他无所适从,他成了输不起的孩子。其实,孩子经不起挫折,很多时候是因为对自己能力的怀疑和否定。面对这样的孩子,父母该如何帮助他呢? Xiao Mei: Today’s children are all one-child and parents have high hopes for them. When they are at home, they are always centered on them. In their children’s hearts, there is a kind of “I am capable” and “I can have everything” Subconscious. But after all, children are “social people.” He wants to get out of the family, into the community, into the group, so he found himself not valued and found that not everything is doing well, so in the face of failure He was anxious, he was anxious, he was at a loss, he became a child who could not afford to lose. In fact, children can not stand the setbacks, often because of their ability to doubt and deny. In the face of such children, parents how to help him?