近段时间,无论是自己还是同事,感觉最深的就是来自批评的压力。面对批评,无外乎四种结果,其一是逆反心理,认为自己是对的,坚持己见,不肯改变;其二是委屈心理,认为自己做了这么多,没有功劳也有苦劳,批评是对自己成绩的一种否定;其三是颓废心理,认为自己很没用,总是进步不了,进而 Recently, both myself and colleagues, the feeling is the deepest pressure from criticism. In the face of criticism, nothing less than four results, one is anti-psychology, that they are right, persevere, unwilling to change; the second is grievance psychology, that they have done so much, there is no credit for hard work, criticism Is a negation of their achievements; the third is the decadent psychology, that they are useless, and can not always progress, and thus