过去人们常说:恋爱的时候要睁大双眼找毛病,结婚后则要对毛病睁一只眼,闭一只眼。这不是忍让,也不是不负责任,随波逐流;而是智慧,是彼此的接受和宽容。在两个人的世界里,不是双赢就是双输。与其不依不饶、纠缠不清,不如收放自如,他快乐所以你快乐…… In the past, people used to say that when they fall in love, they should look for problems with their eyes wide open and when they are married, they should open their eyes to the problems and close one eye. This is not forbearance, nor irresponsibility, drift; but wisdom is mutual acceptance and tolerance. In the two-person world, either win or lose. Instead of retribution, tangled, it is better to put freely, he is happy so you are happy ......