人类天生就有将事情做完、让需求得到满足的倾向。然而,这又是一个达不到的理想状态,因而产生了生命中一个又一个未满足的需求,这在心理学上被称为“未完成事件”。需要强调的是,心理层面上的“未完成事件”是一种情结,非指日常生活中没有完成的事情。弥合失去的伤痛,还欠一个告别莲很长时间感觉胸闷、头痛,就医检查无明显器质性疾病。听莲讲述,这半年来自己身体和心情都每 Human beings are born with the tendency to get things done and meet their needs. However, this is again an unattainable ideal state, resulting in one after another unmet need in life, which is psychologically referred to as “unfinished event.” It should be emphasized that “unfinished event” on the psychological level is a kind of complex, not referring to things that are not completed in daily life. To bridge the loss of pain, but also owe a lotus Lotus feeling a long time chest tightness, headache, medical examination, no obvious organic disease. Listen to the lotus, the past six months have their own body and mood each