几年前,我的一个朋友,常常给我打电话。说朋友其实没有深交,准确地说是高中同学,没考上大学,去了广东打工。每次打电话来,他都很跟我讲很多,其实多是他讲,我听。社会人生的,什么都讲。听得出,他是真把我当朋友的。但是我总觉得有些烦,渐渐地,我不乐意和他多讲话了。老婆也说,这种朋友多半是有求于你。没过多久,他打电话来,说借他些钱,他母亲生病,急需用钱。我便找了个理由,婉言拒绝了他。 A few years ago, one of my friends often called me. In fact, friends do not say deep friendship, to be exact, high school classmates, did not go to college, went to work in Guangdong. Every time he called, he told me a lot, in fact, he said, I listen. Social life, what to say. He can see that he really treats me as a friend. But I always feel a bit annoying, gradually, I do not want to talk to him more. My wife also said that most of these friends are seeking for you. Soon after, he called and said he borrowed some money and his mother was ill and in urgent need of money. I found a reason, politely rejected him.