当今社会是一个充满竞争的社会,所以,要从小培养孩子的竞争意识。但是,只要有竞争就会有成功和失败。社会心理学研究证实,竞争是挫折的重要来源之一,痛苦和挫折常常引起敌意。如何改变竞争消极的一面呢?需要改变竞争的机制,变“你上我下”的恶性竞争为“你上我也上”的良性竞争。让孩子们明白竞争只能一方受益,而合作可以达到共赢的效果,让孩子把同学当作伙伴,而非对手,实现共同成长。1.改变机制,良性竞争 Today’s society is a competitive society, so, to cultivate children’s sense of competition from an early age. However, as long as there is competition there will be success and failure. Social psychology studies confirm that competition is one of the important sources of frustration and that pain and setback often cause hostility. How to change the negative side of the competition? It is necessary to change the mechanism of competition and change the vicious competition of “you go to my next” to be the healthy competition of “you are on me”. Let the children understand that competition can benefit only one side, and cooperation can achieve the win-win effect, let the children treat their classmates as partners rather than their opponents to achieve common growth. 1. Change the mechanism, healthy competition