平时,我们不难看到这样的现象,家长们在一起孩子就是谈论的话题,相互攀比,孩子学的什么?在那里学的?诸如此类等等。家长平时在管教孩子的时候,对孩子的要求总是这不行那不行的,丝毫没有商量的余地,其理由就是为了孩子好。这一切完全是站在自己的立场上,根本没有去考虑孩子的感受,在这里,孩子只是家长的摆设而已,家长完全是根据自己的意愿去设计孩子的未来。有这样的—个故事。说的是,有—个年 Usually, we see this phenomenon is not difficult, parents are children talking about the topic, the mutual comparisons, children learn what? Where to learn? And so on and so forth. Parents usually in the discipline of children, the child’s request is always not work that does not work, there is no room for negotiation, the reason is that the child is good. All this is entirely stand on their own position, did not go to consider the child’s feelings, where the child is just the parental arrangements only, parents are completely based on their own wishes to design the child’s future. There is such a story. That is, there is - a year