为自己争一口气,就要甩开别人的搀扶,不生别人的闲气,自己的路自己去走,靠别人安身立命是没有出息的。清代书画家、文学家郑板桥,52岁时才得一子,虽对他万分宠爱,但从不溺爱,经常以各种方法培养其自立能力。 To fight for one’s breath, we must throw off other people’s support, do not give up the idleness of others, their own way to go on their own, rely on others to build their own life is no chance. Zheng Banqiao, a Qing Dynasty calligrapher and painter and writer, had a son when he was 52 years old. Although he was extremely fond of him, he never spoiled and often cultivated his ability of self-reliance in various ways.