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“男大当婚,女大当嫁”,尽管90年代人们的价值观发生了巨大变化,但处于婚龄的男女对婚姻的选择,大多数仍持肯定态度。恋爱,结婚,追求幸福,仍是大家对婚姻的期望。值得注意的是,婚后的现实却出现了千差万别的状态:有的婚姻和谐温馨,有的婚姻平淡无味,有的婚姻则发生冲突与危机。可见,结婚与婚姻幸福之间其实没有什么必然的联系。从结婚到婚姻幸福之间有着相当一段路程,有些夫妻可以较顺利地通过,达到目标;有些夫妻则对幸福可望而不可即,因为他们缺少婚姻的能力。
“When men are married and women marry,” although most people’s values have changed dramatically in the 1990s, the majority of men and women in marriage age still hold a positive attitude toward marriage. Love, marriage, the pursuit of happiness, is still everyone’s expectations of marriage. It is noteworthy that the reality of marriage has emerged in a vastly different state: some marriage harmony and warmth, some marriage plain and tasteless, and some marriages conflict and crisis. Can be seen that there is no real relationship between marriage and marital happiness. There is a long way to go between marriage and marital bliss, and some couples can go more smoothly to achieve their goals. Some couples are not happy about happiness because they lack the capacity to marry.