听说在美国文化中有这样一句话:孩子是通过父母来到这个世界的,却不是为了父母而来的。是的,孩子不是父母的私有财产,他们应该属于社会,属于世界。众所周知,在一个家庭中,父母永远利用“家长”的职权去安排孩子的一切,用“家长”的威严去征服孩子的反抗,却不知,孩子需要理解,需要尊重,我相信“家长制”的父母将逐步被“朋友式”的父母所代替。 I heard that there is a saying in American culture that children come to this world through their parents but not from their parents. Yes, children are not the parents’ private property and they belong to society and belong to the world. As we all know, in a family, parents always make use of their “parental authority” to arrange everything for their children and conquer the children’s rebellion with the dignity of “parents.” However, the children need to understand and need respect. I believe parents of “patriarchal system” Will be gradually “friend-style” parents replaced.