不少父母抱怨自己的孩子太任性。有的家长甚至说:“我的孩子是天生的拧种,真没办法。”然而,就绝大多数孩子来说,任性不会是天生的毛病。只有了解了造成孩子任性的原因,才能找到正确的解决方法。彬彬的父母经常抱怨:“这孩子很不听话,见到喜欢的东西一定要买,不买就不走。”“一不高兴就扔东西,打人,真是气死人!”彬彬在学校也经常发脾 Many parents complain that their children are too self-willed. Some parents even said: “My child is born with a kind of twist, which is really impossible.” However, for the vast majority of children, capriciousness is not a natural problem. Only by understanding the reasons for the child’s waywardness can we find the right solution. Bin-bin parents often complain: “This child is not obedient to see the things you like must buy, do not buy do not go. ” “Unhappy to throw things, beating, really mad!” Bin Bin often spit in school