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中国的家庭教育信奉“听话”教育,中国的父母普遍认为听话的孩子就是好孩子,不听话爱顶嘴的孩子就是坏孩子,中国的家长往往刻意要求孩子对自己无条件顺从。于是,当孩子与大人出现分歧时,大人经常武断地表态“你错了”“你这样不对”;当孩子想对某件事做个说明时,便会遭到父母更大的训斥:“不许顶嘴!”“还嘴硬?”;更有一些缺乏耐性的父母,十分反感孩子顶嘴,当孩子向父母的权威发出挑战时,盛怒之下免不了对孩子拳脚相加。
China’s family education believes in “obedient” education. Chinese parents generally believe that obedient children are good children. Disobedient loving children are bad children. Chinese parents often deliberately demand that children should unconditionally comply with their own needs. So, when children and adults appear disagreement, adults often assertively “You are wrong ” “You are not right ”; when children want to make a description of something, they will be more parents Reprimanded: “Do not talk back! ” “Mouth still?”; Some more impatient parents, the child is very disgruntled, when children challenge the authority of their parents, the fury will inevitably add to the fist of the child.