“打喜”是清江流域土家族为庆生祈福而举行的诞生礼仪式,凡来参加“打喜”的人都要依据他与喜家的亲疏关系赠送一定的礼物,礼物是人伦情感交流与体现的重要元素。“打喜”仪式中,礼物表现为物,也传达着情,是孩子与父母、祖父母、外祖父母之间身份关系确认,孩子所在家庭与众亲戚、众乡邻之间社群秩序建构的媒介和纽带,具有深藏着情感交流和人际往来的社会化作用。 “Happy ” is the birth ceremony ceremony held by Tujia in Qingjiang River Basin for celebration of blessings. Anyone who comes to participate in “hi” Emotional communication and reflection of the important elements. “Hi ” “ceremony ”, the performance of gifts as objects, but also convey the love, is the identification of children and their parents, grandparents, grandparents identify the relationship between children’s families and relatives, neighbors neighborhood construction of community order The media and ties, with deep emotional exchanges and interpersonal socialization.