时代潮周刊编辑部:我是一位国家公务员,任职于政府人事部门。以前,在繁忙的工作之余,我总是兼任着辅导儿子学习、担当家庭教育的重任。这几年,为了参与激烈的人才竞争,我在八小时以外,不得不给自己充电,夜以继日地进行业务进修,因此再没有时间照顾儿子的学习了。现在,儿子初中就要毕业,面临着升学考试的压力,有时表现得脾气暴躁、焦虑不安,对自己没有信心。面对这种情况,我也手足无措,不知该怎样帮助儿子减少中考带给他的心理负担与 The editor of the Times Magazine: I am a national civil servant and work in the government personnel department. In the past, apart from busy work, I was always responsible for guiding my son to study and play family education. In recent years, in order to participate in the fierce competition for talents, I had to recharge myself after eight hours. I had no time to take care of my son’s learning. Now, my son is graduating from junior high school and is facing the pressure to go to the entrance exam. Sometimes he is fiery, anxious and has no confidence in himself. Faced with this situation, I am also at a loss and I do not know how to help my son reduce the psychological burden on him in the exam.