计划生育在中国形成了一个特殊的儿童群体——独生子女,孩子的出现让家庭结构形成了一个倒金字塔,孩子成了家庭的核心和重点,成了整个家庭的关注重心,成了整个家庭的期望所系。而家庭环境和家长对孩子的影响有着独特的、不可替代的作用,或许从心理学的角度去透析家长负担会给人以别样的启示。 Family planning has formed a special group of children in China - one-child children. The advent of children made the family structure an inverted pyramid. Children became the core and focus of the family and became the focus of the entire family and became the whole family Desired system. The family environment and the influence of parents on children have a unique and irreplaceable role, perhaps from the psychology perspective to dialysis parents burden will give a different kind of inspiration.