2004年正月初九,对当时只有30岁的宋吉业来说刻骨难忘。这一天她的丈夫突遭车祸离开人世,宋吉业仿佛掉进了万丈深渊,几次想要随夫而去,但想想丈夫的爷爷辈兄弟4人,只有丈夫这一个后辈男丁,除公公、婆婆,健在的还有二爷爷、三爷爷和二叔。面对只有6岁的女儿和终日以泪洗面的婆婆,宋吉业咬着牙对自己说“一定要振作起来,把孩子抚养成人,赡养丈夫的长辈,撑起这个家”。 On the ninth day of the first month of 2004, Song Jianye, only 30, was unforgettable. On this day her husband suddenly died in a car accident, Song Jiye seems to have fallen into the abyss, several times want to go with the husband, but think about her husband’s grandfather and sibling 4, only her husband, a late male, except father, Mother-in-law, there are still two grandfather, three grandfather and uncle. In the face of her daughter, who is only 6 years old, and her mother-in-law, who tears all day long, Song Jiye bites her teeth and says to her: “We must cheer up, raise our children as adults, and support our elders as proponents.”