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家长偷看孩子的日记显然是不妥的。关心孩子,怕孩子走上邪路,这虽然没有错,但通过日记窥探孩子心灵的行为方式却不可取。这也显示了一些家长在子女教育问题上的无力感。要了解孩子,最好的办法就是成为孩子的朋友,在交流与沟通中,不经意间为孩子解疑释惑。只要孩子走在正路上,大事不糊涂,家长也就没有必要在偷看日记这种事情上动心思了。而日记本作为孩子小小的个人“领地”,对孩子宣泄情绪、审视自我,观察生活都至为重要,家长应该充分尊重孩子的隐私。
It is obviously wrong for parents to peek at their children’s diary. Caring for children, fearing that children are on the wrong path is not wrong, but it is not advisable to use a diary to spy on the child’s mind. This also shows some parents’ sense of powerlessness in their children’s education. To understand children, the best way is to become a child’s friend, in the communication and communication, inadvertently dispelling doubts for the child. As long as the child is on the right path and the big things are not confused, parents will not have to worry about peeking at things like the diary. The diary, as a small personal “territory” for children, is important for children to express their emotions, examine themselves, and observe life. Parents should fully respect their children’s privacy.