弗洛伊德指出:“受到母亲无限宠爱的人,一辈子都保持着征服者的感情,也就是说保持着对成功的信心,在现实中也经常取得成功。”对孩子自信的培养只能从小由家庭潜移默化,用母爱诱发出来。一个人可以被别人歧视,但万万不能被自己的父母歧视。家长和孩子的关系应该建立在平等、友好、相互信任、互相理解、互为容忍的基础上的一种和谐关系。好的关系胜过许多教育。父母什么时候与孩子关系好,对孩子的教育就容易成 Freud pointed out: “Those who are infinitely loved by their mothers have maintained their conqueror’s feelings throughout their lives, that is, they maintain their confidence in success and often succeed in reality.” Can be subtle by the family from childhood, with maternal love induced. A person can be discriminated against by others, but must not be discriminated against by their parents. The relationship between parents and children should be based on a harmonious relationship based on equality, friendship, mutual trust, mutual understanding and mutual tolerance. Good relations trump many education. When parents have a good relationship with their children, it is easy to educate their children