生活中,像这样的事实俯拾皆是:相爱的夫妻难以到头,看似不爱的伴侣却往往白头偕老。这给了我们一点启示:要像不爱那样相爱、相处。不爱,便不会在乎他是否记得你的手机号,不会一个小时一次电话烦他。不爱,便不会奢望他每年记得你的生日并给你一份惊喜,也就少了许多怅然和失意。 In my life, things like this are all over the place: lovers are hard to come by, and seemingly unloved couples tend to grow old together. This gives us a little inspiration: love, get along as you do not love. Do not love, they do not care if he remembers your cell phone number, will not bother him by phone once an hour. Do not love, you will not expect him to remember your birthday each year and give you a surprise, also less a lot of sense of loss and frustration.